Decalogue to stop being a Peter Pan man

1. You must accept that you have a self-esteem deficit and if you don’t start to love yourself, it will be difficult to obtain and preserve the love of the others.
2. You must consider, though your problems come from the childhood, only if you are an adult, you would be able to find the solutions.
3. Remember that if you are not capable of flying towards the Country of the Present and Now, you’ll take the risk to stay in Neverland forever.
4. Trust in your abilities and use the values of your self-image and your self-concept, to improve your deficit of self-steem.
5. Trust in your possibilities and use PAC system in order that, between your Parent and your Adult, so they manage to educate your Child.
6. Turn into yourself teacher and, through your inside dialog, decide what you must do to become the one who wants to be.
7. Think that each time you take a conduct of self-affirmation, you are using your aptitudes to correct your mistakes and reorientate the course of your life.
8. Do not forget that never is too late to change and always you are in time to improve, but think that as soon as you begin the process, the better benefit you will obtain.
9. Consider that good moments are for enjoying and the bad ones are for learning. Try to accept better what you can not change and take crucial and necessary decisions to change what you can.
10. Think that if you reach the maturity, you will have three great remunerations: you will feel coherent, and fulfilled, and you will turn into a loved worth being man.